by Shirley Hailstock
I'm
having a Christmas party. Of course that
means cleaning the house, at least the part that the guests will see. So I'm vacuuming the dining room, when I start
thinking about how I love seeing the lines the vacuum cleaner makes on the
carpet. And the idea for this blog comes
to me. This is proof of that common
question writers get: where do ideas come from -- from the great and powerful
and the mundane and necessary.
So,
my first favorite thing is a clean carpet.
Mind you, I don't like being the cleaner. I avoided the cleaning gene while I was still
in the womb. However, in order to get
what I want, something I have to suck it up.
Writing and reading
reference: submitting a clean manuscript
to your editor; providing a reader with wonderful experience devoid of typos
and distractions that throw them out of the story.
The
smell of fresh cut grass is another favorite.
I like the smell all summer long, but that first cut of the year is like
all the fragrance buds opened up and offered their scent to the wind. I don't cut my own grass. I have a service that whips through the
process in record time. Yet, that first
cut welcomes the change from winter to spring.
Writing and reading
reference: The writer has finally
birthed the baby and she's holding it in your arms, ready to allow someone, a
stranger who plucks it off the shelf (real or virtual) to read her story. It's going to be a new world as soon as she
lets it go. Her feeling of fear increases
ten-fold, until that first review comes in, until she can exhale and allow all
the pent-up emotion out. For readers, a
new voice just entered the world and you're there to receive it. With hope and admiration, you settle in your
chair riveted to the pages, waiting for the end, for your ahhh moment as you
reach the last page. That's the first
smell of cut grass.
The heat on my face when opening
an oven. It's a flash of heat, but it's dripping
with anticipation. There's something
good in there. I can feel the heat of
it. At the first snow, I love to make
cinnamon rolls. They remind me of home
when I was a little girl. We'd make them
from scratch, eagerly waiting for them to finish cooking so we could open that
oven door. This brings me to a complementary
favorite -- sticky hands. We couldn't
wait for the cinnamon rolls to cool down, so we'd ice and eat them, still hot
from the oven, as the icing dripped down the corners of her mouths and onto our
hands -- ala sticky hands. Writing and reading reference: It's a favorite book. All writers have one. Most won't tell you which one. We don't want you to think there is a best
because the writer's favorite may not be
the reader's favorite. What sticks to
your hands may not stick to mine. But something will stick. And you won't be able to put the book down.
I
love people who smile. I find that
smiling makes the day better. It begins
that way and continues. This is not to
say that life doesn't happen, that disappointments don't come, sometimes in
droves, but putting on that happy face can
make it feel a lot less irritating. Long
ago, I read something (probably in science class) about it taking more facial
muscles to frown than to smile. I was skinny
then and thought smiling would be better.
I still think that and I also know that frowning uses more energy, but
not enough to make you lose weight -- so smile.
You'll feel better. Writing and reading reference: Books make you laugh and cry. They touch your emotions and introduce you to
fictional family and friends. They are
people you can laugh with and most often, they make you smile. You may not know
it, but they do the authors and readers have the same reaction. Sometimes we're reluctant to let them
go. Readers want another story with their
new-found friends. Writers have new
ideas, new directions to travel with the people they've brought to life. Come on people, let's all get together for a
group photo. Say SMILE.
I
also include chocolate among my favorites (only about a dozen people in the
world don't). However, I'm a chocolate
snob, a cheap snob if that's a consolation.
I'm a Hershey girl. I like milk
chocolate. I don't favor expensive
chocolates. When I was in San Francisco,
a friend walked me around for an hour trying to find a very famous chocolate
store, Ghirardelli. I'd never heard of
them. (I can hear you gasping.) I tried several different samples they had in
the store, didn't like any of them. I've tried Cadbury Chocolate, Dove
Chocolate, Whitman Samplers, Russell Stovers, even Godiva Chocolate (which always
reminds me of a naked lady on a horse), and none of them appealed to me as much
as a Hershey bar. There are other
favorites in the chocolate category that I adore; chocolate cake with chocolate
icing, chocolate mousse, hot chocolate, chocolate milk, the list goes on. Writing
and reading reference: different books appeal to different people. Some like
historical, some small town contemporaries, some Navy Seals, others FBI
thrillers, there's something out there for everyone's taste.
I
could go on listing my favorite things, but Julie has come in and wagged her finger with the enough is enough gesture. So, let's leave it with a favorite wine, a fireplace with a
roaring fire, and good friends.
What
are some of your favorite things?
As always, keep reading...
I agree with you on the chocolate. Every Christmas, a person I work with gives me a box of the most expensive and fanciest chocolates out there. I regift them. Give me good old milk chocolate without added flavors.
ReplyDeleteI re-gift mine too. My daughter's school sold chocolate bars as a PTA fundraiser. Instead of trying to sell them, I just bought the case to support the PTA. They weren't Hershey's. I tried them, but they aren't the same. I gave them out at Halloween.
DeleteI love this, Shirley. One of my favorite things is the first step out the back door in the morning--my office is in a detached garage. No matter what the weather, it's always a brand new day.
ReplyDeleteOh, I love this. I write a lot in my family room (my office is upstairs). The family room is very sunny and I can see the trees in the backyard.
DeleteI did not get the cleaning gene either. One of my favorite things is quiet time. The house emptied, kid at school, husband at work, and dog outside. I allow the cat to share the quiet time with me. Lately, though, he's disturbed quiet time with "Let's get rid of the dog" covert stares.
ReplyDeleteLOL. For some reason, when I have all that quiet, I feel like taking a nap, which eliminates all the reason for being alone.
DeleteWhat a wonderful list of favorites, Shirley. I too, love people who smile. Don't you think it makes people much more attractive?
ReplyDeleteAs for my favorite things...books, hummingbirds, and neon Post-it notes.
I have a list of more favorite things, but I had to end the post. I love people who smile. When I lived in DC and took the bus to work, everyone getting on frowned, like they didn't want to be there. Like they were unhappy. I thought "it's only 8:00, you can't be angry already."
DeleteI grew up in the suburbs of DC, so I know what you mean, Shirley. :)
DeleteFun post, Shirley. Thank you for sharing!
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome and thanks for reminding me to hit publish.
DeleteFrothy milk in my coffee, the enthusiasm of a puppy or kitten, cat videos where they try to get inside small boxes, the glittery lights of my Christmas tree...
ReplyDeleteI don't have animals, but those glittery lights can have me wasting a lot of time watching them. Well, not really wasting time. They relax me. (Just don't go to sleep.)
DeleteShirley, what a great post! Especially for this time of year when we're all entrenched in craziness. It's nice to take a moment to appreciate some of the little things in life that make us happy. Some of my favorite things are the feel of a sandy beach beneath my feet, that first cup of coffee in the morning (especially when my husband makes it) my doxie cuddled against my leg as I sit on the sofa and work on my lap top, and the smell of anything yeasty baking in the oven.
ReplyDeleteThe first cup of coffee in the morning. I make my own, Maxwell House. Even with a Keurig, I fill the little cup and use that instead of the expensive packages.
DeleteWhen my daughter gets on the school bus, I sit down with that cup and relax in the quiet enjoyment of the day. It's my favorite time.
Ron and I under a blanket and watching Big Bang Theory, Christmas, Yorkshire Gold tea, shortbread cookies, the press of animals around me, family around the dinner table, a new book idea. Ghirardelli does make the best white chocolate - but, then, that's not really chocolate, so maybe doesn't count. Good list, Shirley. I'm smiling.
ReplyDeleteSo you've heard of Ghirardelli? Since I wrote the blog, I see this candy everywhere I go. Never watched the Big Bang Theory, but I know what the Big Bang Theory is (the scientific theory).
DeleteHershey's chocolate is my favorite, and I'm not just saying that because I used to work for The Hershey Company.
ReplyDeleteMy favorite things: Books (especially Heartwarming books and authors, historicals and mysteries), tea with books, trees, mountains, birds, my cat, chocolate, pizza, a bright sunny day...oh...too many things to name. And I love it when people smile and demonstrate kindness.
I have two nieces who've never been to my house before. They're teenagers and I'm planning to take them to Hershey, PA. The park is closed for the winter, but we're expecting a mild (or even warm Christmas). They'll be able to see the kisses street lights and the water tower. The chocolate factory tour is open and of course, the tour ends in the gift shop. I think the whole place is made of chocolate.
DeleteI actually worked in one of their field offices in North Carolina, but I visited the park once as a child.
DeleteThings I like are family, friends, and sunshine. I like blooming flowers and dinners out. Love your post, because it made me ponder. Really I probably like too many things to list.
ReplyDeleteWe all like too many things to list, but see how just the thought of them makes us smile.
DeleteThose are all favorites of mine, too, especially the books. But I do love dark, rich chocolate, especially with nuts (but not most creme fillings). Have a wonderful party.
ReplyDeleteThe party is over and it was wonderful. It was small enough to be able to talk to all my smiling friends. And we ate great food and lots of chocolate cake.
DeleteI'm also not into cream fillings. I love nuts in the chocolate.
Macadamia nuts in milk chocolate (or white chocolate) are the absolute best!
DeleteI never developed a like for Macadamia nuts. It might also be why Hershey chocolate is my favorite. Macadamia nuts take two years to grow and people devour them. Me -- I'd pass them by without a thought. There's that snob again -- the cheap snob.
DeleteI love the memory of the smell of my Mom's kitchen. The wonders she could create. :) I love the smell of baby powder on my grandbabies when I kiss their necks, a childs laughter and most of all I love reading. Happy Holidays everyone.
ReplyDeleteCarol L
Lucky4750 (at) aol (dot) com
Ummm, that newborn baby smell. I love that too. Can they somehow bottle that so I can use it after my shower?
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